By Emmanuel Onyedika
Grammy-winning Nigerian singer Temilade Openiyi, popularly known as Tems, has revealed why she avoids romantic relationships with fellow Nigerian celebrities.
Speaking at the BET Awards ceremony, Tems was asked if she would consider approaching trending Super Eagles goalkeeper Maduka Okoye. She responded that because they are both Nigerians, she wouldn’t see him in that light.
The “Love Me Jeje” crooner explained that she regards Nigerian male celebrities as “brothers” and therefore does not view them romantically. “I know who Maduka Okoye is but I don’t know him personally. I wish I did though. But shooting shots at him, we don’t do that over here. We [Nigerian celebrities] befriend each other and we are family. I see my male colleagues as brothers,” she said.
Her comments have sparked conversations among fans, many of whom expressed surprise at her perspective, while others praised her for maintaining boundaries and emphasizing camaraderie within the Nigerian entertainment industry.
Tems, known for her global success and unique artistry, continues to balance her high-profile lifestyle with reflections on personal values and relationships, offering fans a glimpse into her outlook beyond music.